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ADVICE TO A WOMAN PAST THE POINT

Dec 18, 2014 breakupedia

Alright break up fans, finally the ball is rolling and people are coming to the well on the subject at hand.

I had a friend send me an email, it read as follows:
Ok , so there’s this guy right & I am so head over heels-do anything for him go 110% when I know i shouldn’t bc he doesn’t for me. Its like I’m aware of the BS i am…I’m not an idiot- i know what i have to do and what i should do- LET IT GO. And I’ve tried. I’ve tried.And everytime I try to- he finds a way to bring me back in. uughhh i hate it. So, it got bad to the point I wanted more from him- more in the sense of-we don’t talk as much, we should hang out more- to him I’m assuming I’m just a chick there he see’s here n there. So i let em know i felt and he never responded- i was like…wth…i should have done it in person obviously and not in the form of a text bc i know he read it-he just ignored me from there on out. so i cursed him out and now he’s done lol. I mean he hasnt said he’s done bc he no longer responds. lol…thats my story.

tell me to LET IT GO.

WOW – NOTHING LIKE ACTUALIZING ONE’S FEARS – OVER AND OVER AGAIN!!!!
CARING TOO MUCH IS ALWAYS THAT “WHY DIDN’T I SEE IT COMING BEFORE?” TELL-TALE SIGN TO BOOK A FLIGHT IN THE OPPOSITE DIRECTION.
WHEN YOU FEEL THIS WAY AGAIN PULL THE CORD ALREADY AND FLOAT GENTLY TO A COZY LANDING ANYWHERE ELSE ON THE MAP AWAY FROM DUDE(S) IN QUESTION..

OK, SO LET’S GET DOWN TO IT – SWEETIE, AS HARD AS THIS IS GOING TO BE TO HEAR – -THE PROBLEM IS YOU! HE’S NOT THE PROBLEM, YOU ARE FOR LETTING HIM TAKE YOU DOWN THE PATH OF DELAYS, DISAPPOINTMENT, AND DENIAL – AND THEN PISSED BECAUSE YOU HATE THE VIEW…
YOU ARE HANDING HIM THE KEYS TO YOUR CAR IN FRONT OF A CLIFF AND THEN DROWNING IN THE MISFORTUNE OF THE RESULTS!!
YOU KNOW HOW WHEN TRAINING A DOG IT’S ACTUALLY ABOUT TRAINING THE OWNER?? NEED I SAY MORE. IF THE MILKBONE FITS..
DON’T GET MAD AT SNAKES FOR BITING YOU – IT’S WHAT THEY DO.

NOW THE GOOD NEWS – DUST YOURSELF OFF, LOOK IN THE MIRROR, FINDING 3 THINGS YOU LOVE ABOUT THE REFLECTION YOU SEE, AND THEN GET ‘NEW MILLENIUM / SECOND DECADE’ WITH IT AND CHOOSE WHICH ONE HIS FRIENDS YOU WILL BE GETTIN WITH TO RETURN THE FAVOR!!!!
OK, OK MAYBE TOO HARSH, ‘SASHA FIERCE’, BUT WHAT I AM SAYING IS DON’T JUST LET GO, DO IT WITH AUTHORITY BY GRABBING HOLD OF SOMETHING ELSE AT HAND, PREFERABLY SOMETHING HEALTHIER FOR YOU, WITH A PULSE — OR RECHARGEABLE BATTERIES, IF NEEDS BE, BUT MAKE A DEFINITIVE MOVE AND IN DOING SO SHUT THE DOOR ON HIM.
AND FOR GOD’S SAKE DON’T WAIT FOR ANY MAN TO PUT A FREAKKIN RING ON IT!!!
GET YOUR OWN DAMN BLING.. :)