“SOCIAL DARWINISM” -when one has multiple suitors sometimes no decisions need be made. Simply stand back and let nature take it course – inevitably someone will make a a mistake that fits ‘deal breaker’ behavior thus canceling them out. And this will continue to happen until “naturally” there is only one – the fittest – left standing for you to actually date.
It is fool proof and simply requires patience.. Feel free to get laid while waiting! 🙂 if that is your man, welcome home- no judgements!